Soulmate separation is one of the hardest and the most challenging things for people to go through. You are so sure that you two are soulmates and yet you dont understand why you two need to go to opposite ways. No matter how hard you try, you just dont seem to be able to move on. The worst thing is that sometimes friends may not understand the connection that you have shared with your soulmate and they just treat it as some ordinary relationship and keep telling you things like “he/she is not worth it”, “The best is yet to come.” “There are a lot of fish in the sea.” Those things just wont help because the pull that is in your heart just wont let you go. When we are in this soulmate separation period, we have to understand that there are works for us to do–the inner work. Meeting a soulmate usually triggers our deepest issues and it’s a signal from the universe that we have to look deep into these issues and work with them and hopefully come out fresh.
At the beginning, we often overlook the inner issues that have been highlighted by the connection and often seek reassurance. We want people to tell us that some day our soulmate will return to us and we also want to know the time and date of their return. At this point, we will often find fortune tellers or readers to conduct readings for us and to tell us about our future. Many will also jump from readingt to reading and seek comfort. Usually the readings do not help much because they are just quick fixes. After each reading, we will feel released for a few days or a few weeks, then after a while, the old demons just creep in again and we need another reading again. So the cycle goes on and on.
We have to understand that readings will not give us answers. If the readers are good, they will usually tell you the lessons that you have to learn in this connection and you have to work through the lessons. Some readers will tell you whatever you want to juice out all your money. So jumping from one reading to another is dangerous, it can be addictive and it wont be good for your finance.
What are the lessons of my connection? You may ask. Well, seriously you have to look back and find out why this separation gives you so much pain. Is it because you need to learn to deal with rejection? Is it about learning to let go? Are there any wounds that were formed during your childhood? Were there any abusive relationships you had had in your past? Stop asking when he/she will come back to you and start asking what you need to learn. As soon as you find out your own lessons and learn to cope with them, you will find yourself leaving the old behind and your whole life will become lighter than before.
Asking psychics will not make your soulmate come back and often their answers will only feed your ego and make the pain go away temporaryly. To get rid of the pain, you need to work with your issue and understand that pure love does not lead to pain, love is love and without being with your soulmate, the love between you two is still there. We do not need to see it in order to believe it. Your soulmate runs away from you does not mean he/she does not love you. It’s just that they have their own issues to work on and you have yours. Often there are reasons for you two to seperate and work on things on your own before you can come together again. Have faith in God/Universe. Listen to your heart and your heart will lead you to healing. Do not use logic, feel things, feel your path and you will meet people who inspire you and lead you to healing.
It’s time to stop the readings and start working on issues. Follow your intuition and your heart and you will be led to the path of healing.